How do you want to live?

There’s a lot of contradiction and debate about this right now due to the Coronavirus.

How do we want to live?

First of all, let’s agree that we do want to live.

I know that there’s talk of the number of suicides having jumped during Lockdown and I realise there are many people struggling with life as it looks right now with all the financial and social and personal hits.

For those people, please talk to someone and state it as clearly as you can that your life is in danger.

I also recommend you use RWID as a tool to identify the things in your life worth living for and focus on them.

But for today, I’m talking specifically to those who want to live but don’t want to live like this.

Because here we are, once again, divided by tribalism and politics into warring camps.

To wear a mask or not; to go to the office or work from home, to want to have an untested vaccine injected into their body in the hope it offers some protection from Covid without any other unfortunate effects or to build natural immunity through healthy self regulation.

There are many nuances to this post Covid world but they all seem to resemble hammers and crowbars to attack ‘the other side’ as we lose the ability to discuss rationally, to take all information in and not divide it along partisan lines.

But shouldn’t we be allowed to determine how we want to live? To make our own decisions?

Obviously not when we’re impacting on other people. I’m not suggesting we don’t all have a duty to help support vulnerable people and reduce infection and hardship. But surely that should be the case at any time, not just now?

And as far as masks are concerned, the messaging from Boris is so muddled and confused that I’m more inclined to think the mandatory wearing of masks was introduced more as a PR exercise that a science based health policy.

Bur leaving Covid 19 to one side if you can, how do you want to live?

When clients first come to me, one of the first questions I ask them is ‘What do you want? What would you like to happen?

Most people can’t answer!

Instead they revert to listing all the things they don’t want. All the things making them miserable that they want gone from their life.

Doesn’t it seem as if we’re living backwards?

Instead of facing into what we want and looking at that as we move towards it. We are, instead, constantly staring into what we don’t want, mesmerised by it, trying to escape it by walking backwards while still entangled in its tentacles.

How do you want to live?

Simply by focusing on what you want, you change your mood, you change your feelings, you actually change your mental and physical state.

And the more you do it, the more you actually change. You change how you think and that changes how you show up in the world.

Focusing on what you want changes your inner world and will in time change your outer world.

I want to live thinking thoughts that inspire and empower me.

I want to live knowing that life is good and everything works out perfectly most of the time.

I want to live believing in the best of other people and knowing change is possible. Not just for me but for the whole world.

How do you want to live?


Cynthia xx

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