Resenting the need to do the work doesn’t stop you needing to do the work!

I know! I get it. I felt that way too and still sometimes do.

Why do I have to do all this therapy, dig through all this inner garbage just to feel ‘normal’?

Other people just are ‘normal,’ right?

They don’t feel lost, broken, alone, abandoned, insecure, depressed, afraid, anxious, like nothing’s right with them and everything’s going to go wrong.

Its a bit like the person who grew up eating sweets and chocolate and pizza and whose metabolism and body chemistry has been f*cked and every day they have to watch what they eat and feel guilty about what they eat and not eat too much and it takes up so much time and energy and focus and makes them so unhappy when other people, skinny people just eat whatever they want and they don’t have cravings and they don’t have hidden stashes of sweets and chocolate bars and they might even eat fruit and vegetables because they taste good!

You are a product of your childhood and you have to unlearn that sh!t!

As the Borg would say, ‘Resistance is futile!’

It was the Borg said that, wasn’t it? I sometimes get my sci-fi mixed up, maybe it was the Daleks. Who cares? It doesn’t matter.

Generic sci-fi pic! Because I don’t care whether its Star Trek or Dr Who!

Back to you having to do the work. Or not.

Because you don’t have to. You can stay where you are, stay how you are. Stay feeling the way you do about yourself, about your life, your career, your relationships.

But mostly, stay being this version of YOU!

A version of you that’s a facsimile of all you can be.

But you you don’t have to do anything. You don’t have to change a damn thing.

However, if you want to feel happy, to have joy and purpose and meaning in your life, to wake up every day and feel good about who you are and how you show up in the world and for whatever reason, that somehow doesn’t come naturally to you?

Then you have to do the work!

The excavation of all the crud that covers up the real you, the crud that’s all about why you don’t feel like that, why you don’t like yourself that much, why your relationships seem to always follow the same path to destruction, why you’re staring down the barrel at depression, anxiety, medications whether prescribed or self imposed, addictions, unhappiness, despair.

A life of being stuck, living with less than you know you could be, have and do.

You have to do the work.

And you know what, much as you bitch and moan and whinge and whine about doing it now, eventually it will start to feel good, eventually you’ll love it and not be able to imagine a day when you don’t do it because it makes you feel amazing and it gives you what you most want in the whole world.

Because there’s a treasure underneath all that crud.

What do you want most in the whole world?


You get yourself back. You reclaim yourself from lost and found.

You get to be you, And that is the most amazing thing in the whole world.

Nothing beats that.

So, start today. However you can. Start reclaiming the parts of you that you’ve denied, suppressed and cut yourself off from being, expressing, embodying.

You being you.

There’s nothing more beautiful. And we’re waiting, the whole world is waiting for you.

But most especially, you are waiting for this too.

Stop holding yourself back. This is what you need.


Cynthia xx

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