You maybe don’t agree, after all there’s a loads of massive global issues that have nothing to do with your feelings of abandonment, inadequacy, insecurity or self doubt.
But some people are getting through this period of unrest, uncertainty and change without undue difficulty, others …are not.
You may not believe that there is an inner root to your every outer problem, struggle and complaint, and certainly you cannot change the facts of a global pandemic, mass unrest, disinformation, government and elite corruption by yourself.
But I have a colleague who is so sure of his energy work and his discipline in keeping himself healthy that he believes himself immune to any virus, not just Covid 19. And who’s to say he’s wrong? Certainly he’s healthy and remarkably able to stay clear headed and full of energy regardless of Lockdowns, population anxiety and everything else going on.
Putting aside the global issues for one minute, lets look at lifestyle issues, including health, work, money, relationships, happiness and satisfaction levels.
When you have self confidence, a belief that you are a worthy person, you are of value just by being yourself in this world, you have the courage, passion and that belief in yourself to go for exactly what you want in life. And as such, you gain everything you want.
But what if you don’t have courage, confidence, passion and belief in yourself?
How do you solve those ‘inner’ problems? How do you create changes on the inside that change your external world?
We need to solve the root problems that reside in your psyche.
Inner problems show up in our lives as struggle, feeling stuck, experiencing pain, procrastinating on doing the things that would move us forward. Inner problems show up as insecurity, constant self doubt, feeling like a fraud- the old impostor monster- feeling not good enough.
When we have all that going on we can’t speak up for ourselves, can’t ask for a raise or a promotion, we’re terrified to be seen and play smaller than we truly want to.
What does the fix look like?
Confident. Passionate. Courageous. Taking bold action. Undeniable self belief. We own our own value, trust ourselves in what we think, say and do. We speak up, show leadership and authenticity in our actions. Acting with enthusiasm and joy, shining with personal charisma.
Pursuing external goals, wanting things to appear perfect to other people leads to deep, silent suffering. It might look like you’ve got it all figured out but on the inside, you’re falling apart, flailing around in pain and fear.
When you re-discover your truest self and I challenge you to go deep inside of yourself to discover that part of you that is YOU! When you do that, when you allow yourself to be seen, heard, felt, valued and loved for who you truly are, having compassion and unconditional love for yourself, you free yourself from comparison, judgment, division and feelings of unworthiness..
Your sense of solid inner strength comes from knowing you deserve the things you want, that you have every right to be here and doing great.
You are filled with courage, certainty and stand your ground. You have presence that rises into leadership, you set boundaries that honour yourself and your values and demand fairness and equitable treatment.
Nobody wants to feel the sadness, shame and grief at their core, we all fear being overwhelmed by it. Most people are unaware of how honouring and feeling our anger, sadness, grief and shame transmutes it into your personal power.
Let go of blame and stop punishing yourself for the past. Heal from the inside out. Heal where you reject yourself. Heal where you criticise yourself. And find the courage to hold the space for yourself to become the person you were born to be,
When you’re ready to harness the power of your thoughts, feelings and actions to create a life you love, being a person you admire and find joy in being, then decide to be it. Invest in training, healing, learning.
You can change, you can heal and you can find the answer to any and every problem you have.
Go inside. All you need is there.
And if you want a guide, someone who’s helped not only herself but hundreds of clients do the same, then go to the contact page on my website and book a clarity call. This call will rock your socks,, showing you exactly what you think of how others see you, how you see yourself and we heal from there. you can’t change what you don’t know about.
PS. I’m reworking everything I do to create a monthly group program where people come together once a week to grow, share, learn, laugh, cry, support and be supported. I have no idea what its going to look like yet but I do know that my 1:1 work will reduce and become much more expensive.
So if you want to get in before the prices lep up, do so now. Because come the end of March, I’ll be launching my as yet unnamed group program and putting 1:1 work on the back burner. I truly think I can serve more people better in this way.
I love my 1:1 work and am gladly accepting client registration right now -but only if you’re the right fit. If you’re ready to invest in yourself and move forward faster, gaining greater insight and self knowledge that you ever had before,get in touch. To see if that’s you, listen to the audio on this page and take the next step. Can’t wait to hear from you.