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What my newly tattooed eyebrows have taught me about why people put up with sh!t for so long!
May
YES! I’ve just had my eyebrows tattooed and it looks like someone took a thick black marker and scribbled above my glasses.
When I first saw them I was horrified, I hadn’t wanted them that thick and surely they didn’t need to be that dark?
And to be fair, the thickness is my fault because I didn’t ask to see a template or describe what I wanted, I left my brows in the hands of the beautician
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That’s like going into a hairdresser and said ‘do what you want.’ I would never do that in that situation and I’m now pondering why I behaved that way in this one?
Because it was unusual for me, I haven’t done this before? Because I know of the beautician, she’s got a brilliant reputation and a fancy building? Maybe I was intimidated a bit by that. Don’t know, I will need to spend some time thinking on that and see what comes up for me.
This is what gaining consciousness and owning your self identity is all about. Noticing what choices you make, even when you think you aren’t making any. Because we’re always making choices and the choice to do nothing is always a strong indicator that you have some unconscious programming going on.
Anyway, I got in the car with my new eyebrows and couldn’t help checking them out in the mirror – eek!
Same when I got home, every reflective surface I walked past, I checked out the eyebrows. Brushing my teeth, washing my face, whatever I was doing the eyebrows were my focus.
I wore heavier than usual makeup the first couple of days to try and balance them out, but I was still very conscious of them and yet slowly I started getting used to them.
I’d look in the mirror and see them and not startle at my reflection.
This is how we get used to stuff. Adaptability is a great human trait but its also a awful human weakness, because we get used to anything when its in our lives long enough. I wrote about this before, you can read my first post on the subject here https://cynthiacurry.uk/adaptation-one-of-the-best-and-worst-of-human-traits/
We get used to the small irritations and do nothing to change them. We get used to massive limitations in life and put up with it.
Instead we expend energy in not seeing things, not noticing, and that becomes part of our identity. The put upon sigh, the grin and bear it victim/martyr complex.
Don’t you deserve to live live on your terms with all your energy and focus devoted to building the life you want to live?
But instead, we say things like, ‘that’s just the way he/she/me/life is.’
And its not.
Everything changes. Sometimes we’re forced into changes we don’t want.
The best changes are the ones we CHOOSE for ourselves.
We can choose who we want to be. The characteristics, values and personality we live with – all are changeable. Who do you want to be?
Life is changeable too. All the circumstances we put up with or go along with or manage to get along with – all are changeable.
What do you want your life to be like?
What do you want your relationships to be like?
What do you want your career/job/business/finances to be like?
Choices – most of us make them by default. Start creating life deliberately. Be on purpose!
And that starts with thinking about what your thinking about.
Start thinking about what you want in life. Dream of the impossible and then wonder how it can become possible.
Because many impossible things are now in our reality.
You can do magic. You don’t need a wand, just to start using what you already have – a brilliant mind and imagination.
Oh, and a speck of self discipline.
You’ve got that – start using it!
And I’ve got just the thing to help you. Soul Identity Reclamation. Email or pm to get in. We start in two weeks time at an unmissable investment for you.
Join me in creating your soul identity and life life on your terms, because I think you already know that’s how it was always supposed to be.
Love,
Cynthia xx
